stronger faith

" The believers, men and women, are protectors one of another, the enjoin what is just and forbid what is evil: they observe regular prayers, practice regular charity, and obey Allah and His messenger. On them will Allah pour his mercy, For Allah is exalted in power, wise"
At-Tawbah :71

- to support each other

Can we support other people if we can't even support ourself?

so often people have a remarkable long du'a for the criteria of the person they wanted to have as their spouse. Its not wrong because du'a is a great magic where everything is made possible if we truly make a du'a to Allah besides the effort that we have made.
The question is that, how far we have tried to be the person in the criteria of our du'a?

So prepare my friend. Teach yourself to be a good practising muslim, soleh or solehah. Prepare to give the best to your future spouse.

Then only you can be those mentioned in Allah's verse. Isn't that great to give rather then just receiving

InsyaAllah somewhere down the road, Allah will grant you with someone who is compatible with you.


A Hadith:
May Allah have mercy on a man who wakes up at and pray, and wakes up his wife to pray, and if she resists she would lightly spray water on her face: and may Allah have mercy on a woman who wakes up a t night and prays and wakes up her husband tp pray and if he resists she would lightly spray water on his face

Anessae'i and abu Dawood

So can we wake up to perform tahajud if when we were single we rarely do
But on the other hand, doesn't mean if rarely do during single, we can't perform it when we are married. With greater responsibility, we are driven closer to Allah